Communicationis everything that includes a way of talking to friends, learn in our class,reading, listening and watching movies, and things we have for fun.Communication is a key part of our daily life and the most important way tointeract. Interpersonal communication is “communication in which the partiesconsider one another as unique individuals rather than as objects” (Adler, 10)It plays a role to build a relationship at school, workplace, church, home,etc. Interpersonal relationships are the connection between two or more peoplewho interact.
For the relationship to nurture or for exist and hold always,communication is a tool that can be used to either to build or destroy theinterpersonal relationship. The movie Ichoose is titled “50 first dates”. A 50 First Dates is a romantic comedy film directed by Peter Segal andwritten by George Wing. The movie illustrates interpersonalrelationships in many instances. The main character Henry Roth and LucyWhitmore are one the example of Communication affect the way we perceiveourselves and others.
First, it is best to start by discussingthe need for communication the essential human needs are contented satisfiedthrough communication. Lack of communication can actually affect the solid need.In the motion picture, one-day Henry’s ship breakdown while he is cruisingaround Oahu.
He goes to the Hukilau Café to sit tight for the Coast Guard. Atthat point he sees a young lady named Lucy, who build a waffle house, he didn’tpresent himself as locality. however, the following day he returns, Lucy and hehit it off in and they agree to meet again the next day. Henry is interested inLucy during the first meeting, however, when they meet the next day Lucy doesnot have any memory who Henry is. Henrytried his best to meet Lucy again and again even though she forgets everythingthat happens after she sleeps at night.
The reason that made Lucy forget is ahead injury in a car accident she had a year ago. The characters in this moviehave their own way of interpersonal communication. Henry trying to various waysand means in different situations to approaches Lucy and get to know her. According to the textbook, Mark Knappbreaks down the development and distance of relationships into ten stages,contained in the two wide stages of “coming together” and “coming apart.”